Inspire Your Man & Have the Fulfilling, Passionate, Intimate Relationship You Deserve!

Are you finally ready to transform your relationship and improve his behavior toward you so that he’s happy to spend time together, listens to your every request and respects all your feelings?  If so, we have to first ask you:

Has he asked for space (even out of the blue or after a silly fight)?  Are you feeling jealous and worried?  Does his recent distant behavior have you second guessing yourself and overanalyzing everything?  Is he hot then cold, making you feel out of control and impulsive to calling, texting, emailing him too often?  Is your self-esteem slowly melting away as you panic over the possibility that he may leave you?

Even If He Seems One Step Away From Leaving, You Can Still Inspire Him Back to You

If you answered yes to questions above, we both know exactly how you feel.  Kristina’s husband just up and left one day.  He filed for divorce weeks later. Then, she was left again by a great man who, at first, called her “his miracle”.  And Sarah had dead-end relationships with men for years– relationships that all once seemed so promising.  But we changed everything around for ourselves.  

Kristina inspired her man back to her and they’ve been together for years now, and Sarah is happy in her own committed relationship with a real gentleman.

However, when we were in failing relationships, we were always so shocked at how FAST things seemed to fall apart.  We went from being pampered, praised and adored to being emotionally “dropped”. 

Suddenly, we would go from being the man’s top priority to his “after thought”: something he thought about after his children, his job, his parents, his hobbies…  

It happened the same way almost every time with the men we really liked and cared for.

When things were good in our relationships, we felt strong and supported.  We felt confident that we were worth loving for life and that a real commitment was only a question of our choosing the wedding date.  But this was not the case when things started going bad for us with men…

We would act impulsively, from a terrified, weak place inside us.  We would start to immediately feel abandoned and hurt.  These feelings would make us push our men further away by making us think that every little thing he would do wrong was a sign of his disinterest.  

We would become obsessed with a man’s behavior (what it all really meant) and we would over-think everything we said and did.  Not to mention, we would start CATERING to our distant and distracted men: more sex, more smiles, more jumping through hoops to plan the perfect date or the perfect text message.  Kristina spend over a hundred dollars on a program to teach her how to be a sexy texter!

But no matter what we tried, our men remained distant and seemingly uninspired to love us right and honor the relationship.

How to Tell If Your Man Is Truly Uninspired By You Right Now

Sign #1: He seems irritated by you all the time.

Remember how you never could get on his bad side?  How fights were more about his hurt feelings or his jealousy than about his annoyance with you?  Now when you see each other or speak on the phone, the smallest thing you do wrong or say “weird” seems like the biggest turn-off to him, or just plain makes him angry to the point that he blows things out of portion and takes space.

Sign #2: He’s a ghost.

At some point when you first met, he was so AVAILABLE.  He always listened, connected with your touch and words, melted into you during pillow-talk.  Now he may seem constantly distracted (half there).  Or maybe he isn’t there at all– always making excuses not to see you.  Maybe he’s texting you here and there to “check in” but not making any real plans to be in your presence.  Or…  he could have already asked for space and you don’t know when he’ll come back, if ever.

Sign #3: You feel like a horrible version of yourself.

When a man first sweeps us of our feet, that new-love feeling makes us feel so alive, electric, confident and capable.  But when he floors us by dropping bombs like “I don’t feel inspired by this relationship” or “I need time alone to think about us” we can feel like something is wrong with us.  If you feel insecure, out -of-control with obsessive thoughts and roller coaster emotions, chances are he is one foot out the door.  If you find yourself having impulses to desperately cater to him and please him however you can, it’s usually because he is showing a lack of interest in you.

Please Don’t Make the Fatal Mistakes Many Women Make When a Man Pulls Back

Mistake #1: Fill In the Spaces Where He Has Gone Lax

Most smart and successful professional women know what it takes to get ahead in business but putting in sweat, blood and tears won’t win you back a man like it will a job promotion.

If you are: making elaborate dates in hopes he will want to go, helping him do things that he should be doing for himself (paying his bills, etc.), catering to him with massages or “performance sex”, making him li’l gifts and sweet lovey cards, you are not helping yourself.  You are actually rewarding him for bad behavior.  You are indirectly saying, “Treat me poorly and I will act more loving with you.”  You have to reward a man only for good behavior, and right now, that may be hard to come by.

Now I’m not saying he won’t appreciate your efforts.  He may truly be grateful for your help and attention, but your efforts won’t make you more attractive.   They may even push him further away.

Mistake #2: Keep Silent, Remain Closed Off & Stay Afraid

It’s a natural response, when a man pulls back, to want to shut up and not do anything that would further make him “annoyed”.  But when we stop speaking our mind to please a man, we look weak and we FEEL weak inside, which makes us look more weak.

When a man can sense that you aren’t comfortable opening up to him about your feelings, he feels like he isn’t doing a good job at making you feel safe.  Even he he isn’t currently making you feel safe, he still would rather hear you speak up and express your concerns, than watch you suffer silently out of fear. This will make him feel like the bad guy and he will pull back. Plus, your lack of honesty will only make the relationship more disconnected.

There Are Ways to Inspire His Love for You and Bring Him Back to You

Society has made us all very successful at putting up walls, even when we have no idea we are doing so.  Usually, we stop ourselves from expressing real vulnerability and from allowing our significant other to truly know us.  As women, we ”shutdown” and “harden” our soft side and become more icy… or we cater,cater,cater.  However, an icy attitude or keeping one’s self too busy with catering to be available to receive, both push men away.  

Are you currently so hurt and feeling too vulnerability to allow him near you… at his pace, with him in the driver’s seat, and you out-of-control in the passenger’s seat? Do you want him to lead you toward the kind of relationship where the man does the work and you just relax into his efforts?  If so, have you been allowing this to happen, or have you been too busy pushing him out of the driver’s seat so you can take the wheel?

In love, you have to put down your walls and trust.  You still have to have personal boundaries in place, but if you are going to be with a certain man, you have to give him the benefit of the doubt, or else why are you still around?  

You have to trust that a man will come to you if you wait for him to.  You have to trust that he will not hurt you if you let him inside your heart.  The only way for a man to love you is if you let him.  Right now, can you stop everything you are “doing” for a man and just “be”?  Can you do the Trust Fall?  Can you close your eyes, relax into your feelings, share them with him and fall backward, hoping he will hear your vulnerability and catch you?  He needs this from you, yet most of us are afraid to do this, especially if the man has hurt us. 

Men need to provide.  They need to be needed.  They need our vulnerability.  Men don’t like drama queens, but they love a woman who isn’t afraid to expose her authentic self.  It makes her intriguing and sexy.  It makes us approachable and inviting.  These qualities “tenderize” his heart and make him unable to stay away.  Your honesty– your ability to share your vulnerability– makes you feel safe to him.  You become his safe place and he craves being around you all the time.

Young children have few emotional walls; they said it all like it is.  They are so free to expose their feelings and their blind trust makes them so easy to love.  We want women to be this open when expressing feelings to a man and we call your openness your “little-girl heart”.

Your “little-girl heart” can make all the difference in your relationship and can totally change his behavior toward you.  You only have to know how to authentically expose this side of yourself and how to use it to draw a man toward you.

Inspire Him To Come Toward You Again

Our Inspire His Love for You eProgram for women includes an instant download (pdf.) two-part handbook (over 200 pages) and a meditation track (mp3).

It will teach you how to open up to a man.  It will make you a more conscious and proactive partner.  This program will expose you to all your ineffective behavior with your man and why it’s not working.  It will show you how to make tiny shifts in your behavior to change everything around immediately.

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You’ll learn how to: 

Inspire passion in his heart

Have a more satisfying relationship, where he “shows up” fully.

Feel like a new woman inside.

In Inspire His Love for You, we will show you:

*How to turn your passionate loving feelings into specific behavior that will make him feel closer to you.

*The types of behaviors that push men away and how your fears and dark feelings dictate your actions (even when you aren’t conscious of it!)

*How to feel more confident and in touch with yourself on a very deep level, which makes him extremely attracted to you.

*How to open your “little girl heart” and undo the damage done.

*Communication tools that will open him up and help you express yourself in a way that he can hear.

*How to “let go” in the bedroom and be a more fearless lover. Plus, how to make love to him in a way that brings him emotionally closer.

*Tips to authentically radiating the kind of “sexy joyousness” that leaves a man inspired and in awe.

*How to handle your anxiety in the relationship so that you don’t push him away with your  need to rush the relationship and pull him close (instead of make room to invite him to come toward you).

Own Inspire His Love for You Risk-Free for 60 Days

We feel confident we can help you, but if you don’t get anything out of our eProgram, feel free to return it within 60 days for a full refund.  We want you to be at ease about your purchase and we care enough about women to not have them feel stuck with a product that isn’t useful.

We hope to hear from you soon and find out exactly how things are working out for you.

Oh, and as a bonus to you…

Every woman who purchases our product gains direct access to our “secret password” to be put in the subject line of all emails, so that we can help with any specific relationship issues,.  (We get back to you within 48 hours, but usually, it’s sooner.)

All Our Love and Inspiration,

Sarah Jeanette & Kristina Marchant

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You’ll learn how to: 

Inspire passion in his heart

Have a more satisfying relationship, where he “shows up” fully.

Feel like a new woman inside.

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