Sarah Jeanette is a relationship expert and dating coach for women in the Los Angeles area. She received a BA in psychology from the University of California at Irvine. Her biggest lessons in love, however, were learned from hard-earned life experience.
She works with private clients and has helped numerous women find the self-confidence inside to bring men to their feet. She’s a firm believer in the idea that a man’s going to treat you exactly how you treat yourself.
“Sarah is a feminine goddess who KNOWS men. She’ll teach you how to be a modern-day Monroe, no joke!”–Lucy, private client
Kristina Marchant is a relationship coach and a counselor for women stuck in dead-end relationships. She also received a BA in psychology at Barnard College at Columbia University.
She hosts her own popular blog and has had much success writing articles online to help women better understand themselves in order to better understand men. She believes that most relationship problems are connected to emotional intimacy issues.
“Kristina knows what she is talking about and… she can actually help.”– BloggyAward.com
What we can do for you
Inspiring feelings in a man’s heart and improving the way he treats you and the relationship you share together is a multi-faceted project. Naturally, there are a lot of factors that come into play. However, in Inspire His Love for You, we have carefully broken things down into a 3-part process:
- Mostly, Kristina and Sarah teach women using an “inside-out” approach where you concentrate on your self-esteem to help improve your relationship. However, there are also key...
- For so long we both were in the same relationship, just with different men. We got accustomed to a way of relating with men that always...
- In Inspire His Love for You, Sarah and Kristina have spent a whole lot of time carefully coming up with innovative and highly effective exercises to...
The History Behind Inspire His Love for You
The decision to write a program for women with relationship issues came when both of us were experiencing love life hell. Kristina was fresh out of a bad marriage and having little to no luck with first and second dates, and Sarah had been on the Los Angeles dating scene for 8 years, raking in the phone numbers of every commitmentphobe in town.
One night we both met up at our favorite Mexican restaurant for our usual evening of margaritas and man-bashing, and in the parking lot we came upon a helpless, dirty, and starving kitten that was half-hidden under a parked car.
Being the animal lovers we both are, we spent half an hour coaxing the kitten to come to us, and then drove to the animal hospital when we discovered one of its feet had an infection.
In the car, we came upon a realization– what if we acted with men like we did with the cat–approachable, sweet, warm and inviting. Then maybe men would actually want to stick around. We didn’t hate the cat, fear the cat, give power to the cat like we did with men. We just opened our hearts, softened our tone and gained its trust.
Sounded easy but how were we going to pull this of? After all, we were angry at men, afraid of their rejection and did give them lots of power over our lives. We were already trying so hard to open our hearts and soften our tone but our efforts were in vain because they weren’t authentic due to our fears, insecurities and negative feelings.
The key to changing our perspective on men and healing our insecurities surrounding love, all in an attempt to more easily open up romantically with men, became our new-found obsession.
We made a decision that night to stop giving away all power over our hearts and happiness to men– we decided to spend more time developing and cultivating other areas of our lives.
We also did a lot of experimenting with men– interacting with them in different ways to see which types of behavior inspired love. (Our mission was to treat them like kittens and they ended up more like guinea pigs!)
We discovered that it is possible to have a fulfilling life outside of men and relationship drama, and that we did feel less powerless to men as a result of developing other interests and passions.
Much more surprising, though, we discovered there are ways to behave around men that do inspire most mens’ love and adoration more than other ways. These findings were shocking because the behaviors we once thought worked best with the majority of men (playing hard to get, acting indifferent, being “up” and “bushy-tailed” all the time, etc.) didn’t work as well as we had thought or as well as other ways that required much less energy.
All our findings ended up having a a profound effect on our love lives and our overall level of happiness. These discoveries were also very easy for our other desperate and lonely female friends to understand and apply to their relationships.
We had come up with simple adjustments a woman could make to her thought patterns and in her behaviors with men that ultimately inspired miraculously-improved male treatment in relationships.
Judging by the success our findings had on those around us, we decided to compile our discoveries and create a relationship program for women. We went out on the streets of Los Angeles and spoke to 204 men about what we discovered, and when we had an overwhelming consensus of men (all ages) agreeing with our findings, we marketed Inspire His Love For You.